#1 Being accused of whining when I thought I was sharing my wardrobe problem with friends who could understand.
#2 Friend of a friend intruding on my conversation with my husband with unintelligible noises indicating he thought I was whining when he was not part of my conversation at all
Pet peeve part 3: Knowing how I'd have liked to have responded 3 days too late and knowing that I never would respond that way because I suck at confrontation.
related: I'm going to force myself to assume my friend didn't notice her friends attitude towards me, because if she noticed, she ALLOWED it.
There will probably be more later, on a more closely filtered post.